Healing Through Life’s Firsts
Discover how life’s firsts after loss—while heavy with grief—can become opportunities for healing, growth, and renewal through faith and God’s guidance
More insights into how to align your life with God’s plan for you…
Discover how life’s firsts after loss—while heavy with grief—can become opportunities for healing, growth, and renewal through faith and God’s guidance
Learn how guided meditations can transform your prayer routine by providing clarity, stillness, and healing. Explore practical steps to incorporate this powerful spiritual tool into your daily walk with God
Discover how to create a prayer routine that sticks. Learn practical, faith-filled steps to deepen your connection with God, find peace in chaos, and build a transformative spiritual habit
Discover how to rebuild your life with awe and wonder after soul-crushing loss. Dawn Sanders shares practical steps, biblical inspiration, and journal prompts to help you find beauty, faith, and hope amidst the pain
Sanders’ message resonated deeply with many who had come feeling broken and alone. She reminded them that their pain wasn’t the end, but potentially the soil from which new life could spring
We all experience seasons where it feels like a storm has stripped everything away
After unproductive relationships and heartache, Dawn met the man of her dreams. They started a ministry, got married, got pregnant, and suffered a miscarriage. Shortly
In this heartfelt conversation, listeners will discover how to partner with God through adversity and begin recreating a life filled with meaning and hope, even in the darkest times
Listen to the Interview: In this heartfelt episode of The Martha & Mary Show, co-host Lee Nienhuis welcomes Dawn Mann Sanders, author of When Your
This episode is a powerful reminder that even in the midst of unimaginable loss, there is always a path forward
Whether you’re facing personal loss, a life-altering event, or a season of uncertainty, this conversation will provide hope and practical wisdom for anyone seeking to rebuild their life on a foundation of faith
Setbacks aren’t the end; they’re opportunities to rebuild. With faith and small shifts, we can create a life even more aligned with our purpose
Even in our darkest moments, God extends divine invitations, guiding us back to Him and offering hope, healing, and renewal amid life’s greatest challenges
Rebuilding my fractured trust proved to be a complex journey. I had to reconcile the God I knew before with the God I now know. Only then could the restoration of my shattered trust truly commence
God wasn’t agitated or overwhelmed at the sight of the universe’s unformed state. He was freely moving above it all, hovering peacefully and calmly
Amidst the chaos of life’s storms, small groups emerge as beacons of hope, offering a safe harbor and a sanctuary for the soul. Within these spaces to breathe, we can discover a lifeline, just a source of support that transcends the bounds of mere camaraderie
As the season of renewal unfolds, let’s remember that love isn’t just an abstract concept but a powerful force that fuels our faith
How do you cope and how do you rebuild a worthy life, full of joy when it hasn’t turned out how you expected
Struggling to find words for prayer after life’s challenges? These seven prayers for wisdom offer guidance and clarity when life leaves you stumped
Stymied by a big vision for your ministry or career? Juggling multiple platform-building activities? Bewildered by a Scripture topic that seems beyond your ability to understand—let alone write or speak about
Together, we can overcome any obstacle and find joy and purpose in our restoration journey
Discover the importance of acknowledging mistakes and seeking God’s forgiveness for restoration and renewal in this insightful blog post
Midlife is a stage filled with transitions and transformations that can challenge us deeply. Discover six unique avenues for growing your faith during midlife
Dive into my latest blog and discover 12 innovative strategies for rebuilding your faith, tailored for resilient souls create a new life
Guidance on how to find peace in the chaos, even amidst life’s tremors, reminds us that God’s love and peace are always within reach
In the wake of Reggie’s passing, my mind became a tempest of thoughts, swirling relentlessly—none of them bearing solace. Since then, I’ve come to realize
Welcome, my resilient readers, to a blog post that celebrates the timeless wisdom of Maya Angelou. If you’re reading this, chances are you’ve experienced challenges
Looking for words of wisdom to uplift and inspire you as you move forward in creating a new life after a traumatic event? Look no
God knows your situation, He knows the terrain on the path He has you on, and He knows the good works He has prepared for you. He knows it all
Letting go has a purpose beyond us and what we can see today, making room for all of the new things God has in store for us
When faced with a gap, my study of Ruth has taught me that one response will never lead me wrong: Fill all gaps with God
Things that speak to the condition and quality of our relationships with God are of the utmost importance to Him
Tending and keeping the garden was Adam’s job. The land was his assignment. Today, it’s ours. Because of Adam’s sin, our jobs feel like work, but it’s work worth doing
God created us to know Him and His works, and to make our knowledge of them—Him and His works—known to Him and others through our praise and worship
The effect God wants as the result of a famine is repentance, and with repentance comes the opportunity to create a new life
The pain of immense trials, intense suffering, and devastating catastrophes can take our focus off of any possible spiritual attacks against us—our real needs
And as God uses pruning and shaking to move us in new and different directions, we are to remain in Jesus and Jesus in us, so when God moves us, we move from one unshakable thing to the next—at least that’s God’s desire for us
Once I healed and began dreaming of what my new life could look like, I was free to embrace the possibilities of what it could be like again
A catastrophic event may have happened in your life, but it doesn’t have to be your whole story. God has so much more for us in the form of a new beginning
Every relationship in this life ends. Every relationship will end because all of our lives will one day end. Death is a certainty
If we determine God’s motives to be impure, He stops being good. Once we deem Him no longer good, we’ve changed who God is
I have power, control, and influence without hindrance or interference allowing me to create great things in great amounts at no cost. Yes, I will shout about my God because these are praiseworthy things
Often the problem is we aren’t or weren’t making the best choices—and we’re missing opportunities as a result. We’re missing out on reaching our fullest potential
Yes, shifting to a new direction can be hard. For those of us who experienced a catastrophic event, it can be more than hard. It can hurt.
So, once I reconnected with my God-given position as Adam’s descendent, I could rest again. All I had to do was remember not to allow my circumstances to define me
None of us are born fully charged in the sense of fully developed and capable of performing our assignments. We have a lot of resting and growing to do before we can perform fully
God’s original intention was for humanity not just to exist, but to flourish. We can enjoy our lives and be satisfied because of God’s favor
Just like Adam is to fuel his body from trees that get energy from the sun (S-U-N), we are to fuel our lives with activities that get their energy from the Son (S-O-N)
Catastrophic events are like potholes. Most are unexpected, seem to come out of nowhere, and can knock you off course if you aren’t careful
The first question was: How will you make decisions? This first decision was foundational to our relationship—because all our future decisions would rest upon that decision
Even though you may have experienced a catastrophic event, your fruitfulness, your ability to bear much fruit also remains
When God creates something new, it springs forth in the sense of a fountain bubbling up or a plant sprouting up from underground
Imagining or forming a mental picture of yourself and your life gives you much-needed vision and direction. As any navigator will tell you, in order to chart a course, you need two things: a starting point and an ending point
Six years ago, my upstairs neighbor’s water heater leaked into my bedroom and bathroom. The water damage resulted in stripping down the ceilings, walls, and
Though easy at first, hard work became Adam and Eve’s experience as well. But Adam and Eve didn’t stop in the face of hard work—and thankfully so. If they had, none of us would be here
You’ve experienced a devastating, even catastrophic, event. Now, it feels like the end of the world as you know it. That’s because it did. The world as you knew it ended. But it isn’t the first time. The first happened, you guessed it, at the beginning
Recently, I shared I was on a mission when Reggie approached me about beginning a relationship with a view towards marriage. The mission was the
When I met Reggie, I wasn’t ready for my blessing. The enemy took advantage of my lack of preparation and sent a counterfeit to distract me from my purpose. His attack was brutal
I should have expected it—the attack. God had already spoken to me about being vigilant when I wrote about spiritual terrorism in response to remembering
Creating a new life in the wake of a catastrophic event is hard. The event we went/are going through “involved or caused sudden great damage or suffering.” Just thinking about the damage and suffering we have endured can make us
Wherever you are on your journey, whatever God is challenging you to accept, I hope you are able to take a step. Whether your first step, your pivotal step, or your next step, I hope you take a step. If not today, one day soon
Once you change how you relate to your situation, you may be able to see the possible again. And seeing the possible is the first step to creating the possible in your life
I encourage you to embrace the truth that you don’t have to feel bad forever. The truth is you can enjoy your life because life can feel good again—even in the wake of your life-altering event
If I was going to do it again, I needed it to be different. So, I needed to be different. My time alone with Him allowed God to heal me and change me
Instead of trying to change the other person (which you don’t really have the power to do), why not focus on the one person you can change—yourself? And not just with words, change yourself by changing your thinking
No matter what time I wake up, I purpose to rise AND shine. Because starting my day off right is a crucial step in creating and living a life I love. That means I have to have a good morning
Not every woman feels like celebrating or her joy is bittersweet. For many women who have experienced a miscarriage, Mother’s Day is a painful reminder of our losses—and most women suffer in silence
I evaluated my fear of rest reducing my productivity and found it to be unfounded. Rest is part of the cycle—growth, productivity, and accomplishment have a beginning, a middle, and an end
When I don’t get enough sleep, parts of my body, some in my brain, are not working to their full potential. Getting a good night’s sleep increases our creativity, and thus, our ability to solve complex problems threefold
Does the prospect of creating God-honoring designs feel overwhelming? Are you stumbling around trying to create one? Maybe you need to have your vision checked. Your personal vision, that is
Remembering loved ones is another way of coping with grief during the holidays. By remembering your loved one, I mean intentionally including your loved ones in a holiday ritual or tradition
Most likely this holiday will be different than previous holidays, because you are different. So, don’t expect you or the holiday to be the same. Try to remember that different doesn’t have to mean ruined
To combat loneliness, I did three things: renewed my existing relationships, nurtured other people, and did things I enjoyed with others who enjoyed them
It has been over four years and I am still rebuilding my life. I can’t say that my relationship with God and my definition of myself are the same, but I don’t think they are supposed to be
These women came alongside me and walked with me as I walked with them—they showed me that we don’t have to allow adversity to be the ending to our stories
Here I am trusting God. My new extraordinary life (my next big thing) has not arrived yet, but I finally want it and believe it is on its way. I’m on a journey to find/create/build it because there is still hope
A guest post from a breast cancer survivor—sharing her testimony with others in hopes that they will be advocates for their own health and rely on God when enduring adversity
“I lost myself,” stated a former student of mine. That is easy to do following a life-altering event. We focus so much on the doing that the being gets lost. At least, that is what happened to me
These tips on growing spiritually have served my whole family well over the years. No matter where you are in your faith, Scripture is a weapon you can use to overcome a multitude of challenges
Money is a tool, one I want in my toolbox. That way, I am ready to move when opportunity knocks. Having the money on hand makes it easier to not hesitate when God prompts
I wasn’t ready in the past and almost missed my blessing. I don’t want to put another blessing at risk. That is still my reason, but when it comes to physical health, it goes deeper than that
As your emotional health improves, so will your life by making you a happier, healthier, more positive person—positive people are more likely to attract other positive people and things in their lives
That is what I sensed God saying to me during a retreat back in June. When I heard it in my spirit, I began to cry because being in the shadow is so foreign to me
When I moved into my home almost 25 years ago, I wanted to create a beautiful space in which I loved to live. Unfortunately, I didn’t have the resources or know enough about myself to do it
I hold each individual item in my hands and ask myself, “Does this bring me joy?” If it doesn’t spark joy in me, it has to go.
No longer knowing who I am anymore, makes it difficult, if not impossible, to know what the future holds for me—but the blessing of a clean slate allows me to rewrite my ending, one glorious chapter at a time
My goal is to open a dialogue about how to navigate the challenges, struggles, and obstacles, we encounter in life, and ultimately, not allow these experiences to define us. I look forward to conversing with you as we navigate life together